Every Season Has a Reason: Reflection No. 1 for 2009
Certainly the last year has brought many of us taxing and turbulent times. In the past year alone more of the people in my life have lost their jobs than in all my previous years combined. The fortunate ones are the ones with homes, though some feel imprisoned in a home they can’t sell. It seems that everyone is taking a hard look at what they have, what they value, and how they spend their resources. And it strikes me that this is one of the genuine advantages of the season we’re in–and by that I mean the economic season.
As I visited with friends over the holidays, I noticed several differences from past holidays. Sure, people had spent less, but there was more to it than that. People were more open about discussing what they have and need, and seemed to be more comfortable than before with asking for help. I sense a rise in the collective sense of community; it seems that people recognize that if we band together–neighbors and business communities alike–we’ll all be better off.
Secondly, people have been more mindful and resourceful about how they’ve spent the money they have. No more trips to the mall to just buy whatever. It seems that everyone is being more creative with the dollar and that many are enjoying it. Because who doesn’t like receiving–if not making–a homemade gift?
One friend recently told me about a shopping spree at her local second-hand shop. She found a giant 
stuffed crocodile (a perfect reminder of her recent trip to Australia!) and a wonderful, hand-carved horse barn for her two grandchildren. Her rewards? 1. She was proud of herself for saving over $125 on the shopping spree. 2. She did an environmental good deed. 3. She experienced indescribable joy upon seeing one grandchild dive onto the crocodile as it was revealed! Now that’s a gift-giving trifecta in any season!
Suggested Action Items
- Have you been impacted by the changes in the economy? Try to identify at least five ways in which your personal or professional life has been positively impacted by the economic changes.
- Reflect on the gift-giving trifecta story and plan one of your own. (Unless you’ve recently done one, then pat yourself on the back!) Be creative and remember: there’s no need to wait for a special occasion!
- Identify something you need. Perhaps something that is more difficult for you because of a change in your finances. (e.g. help retooling your CV; need to borrow something because can’t afford to buy it; help creating a budget or doing your taxes) Reach out and ask for the help you need! Ask a friend, family member, neighbor, church member, or me.
